Did you know that ‘flirting’ means to ‘play’ at courting? Therein lies your first major flirting tip: remember that when you flirt with a girl, you should be playful. Being playful doesn’t mean you should be childish. Rather, it means that when you flirt you should do so from a position of high spirits, with good humor and a smile.
Most guys who flirt tend to do so from a position of stress, concern, and if they find themselves rejected, with anger. When you talk to a girl she can pick up your ‘vibe’, just as you can pick up the ‘vibe’ of other people. The last thing you want is for someone to pick up the vibe that you are a serious or stressed out person, or, ultimately, a person who is angry and unlikeable when they don’t get their way. You can avoid all of that by approaching the whole task of flirting as a fun and playful activity. Always remember that even the girl that rejects you might be the girl that ultimately takes an interest in you if you respond to her rejection with a smile and a joke.